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                  Spouse     VS     Kids For new parents, suddenly a confusion pops out in their mind; Who should be given priority- husband/wife or kids? New fathers feel they are getting neglected and no longer see their partner as a wife but they find them as a mom. It is opposite in case of new mothers, their only focus and purpose to live the rest of the life is their new responsibility, their little bundle of joy. So, naturally conflict arise and also we see many couples get seperated for this reason.  I feel all 'parents to be' couples should be given counseling about the challenges they would be facing in the future based on the individual temperament. Both partners must understand that they should stand by one another in good and bad times and face the upcoming challenges in unity. This may strengthen their bond and they may turn out to be partners for ♾. What do you think???

  RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED... Many people debate on topic what is the right age to get married??? For me, age is just a number. As far as marriage is concerned, one must get married when they are ready for it. Marrying early when you are not prepared for it just because of parental pressure may lead to bad experience and uncertain future. But if you are mature enough, I feel when you are young you can mould yourself and adjust to the new life challenges easily, therefore you should go for it. You have lots and lots of time to discover a friend, philosopher, or guide in your partner and plan your life slowly. On the other hand, marrying late, you are mature enough to choose your right partner, take up the new responsibility. But, you may miss some of your blossoming years of exploring your partner and yourself. You need to take hasty decisions of immediate child birth to be on par with your peer groups and this unplanned behaviour may lead to drastic endings. I would rather suggest ...