Spouse VS Kids

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                 Spouse   VS   Kids


For new parents, suddenly a confusion pops out in their mind;


Who should be given priority- husband/wife or kids?


New fathers feel they are getting neglected and no longer see their partner as a wife but they find them as a mom.


It is opposite in case of new mothers, their only focus and purpose to live the rest of the life is their new responsibility, their little bundle of joy.


So, naturally conflict arise and also we see many couples get seperated for this reason. 


I feel all 'parents to be' couples should be given counseling about the challenges they would be facing in the future based on the individual temperament. Both partners must understand that they should stand by one another in good and bad times and face the upcoming challenges in unity. This may strengthen their bond and they may turn out to be partners for ♾.


What do you think???

Comments

  1. RavivammiSeptember 1, 2023 at 10:51 PM

    I think the right balance is very important in life either in parenting or relationships

    It's like keeping a fire alive..you ignore it for long and the fire dies.. you goo too close to a fire and you burn yourself and the fire.

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