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  Pic by Nysa   From Shy to High Note: How "Antakshari" turned "ME" into an Insta-Star UPDATE: A true story of a high school introvert girl who is facing issues like those explained in my blog, https://thinkrightsociety.blogspot.com/2023/10/why-is-nobody-talking-to-me.html , when she joined for class 11 in a new school in her own words. When I started class 11 at a new school, I felt nervous because I didn't know anyone. As I am an introvert, I worried about fitting in.   I often found it challenging to express myself or showcase my talents in a group setting. However, on our PTM day, we were having a free period; and my classmates decided to play "Antakshari" which proved to be a "game changer" with regards to my connections with them.   During the game, I sang a song for the first time before my classmates. They were pleasantly surprised by my singing abilities. They encouraged me to sing more, and I felt a newfound sense of confidence a...

Pic by Nysa              "Becoming a SUNFLOWER"   How asking RIGHT Questions can make you SHINE? A "sunflower personality" is someone who is positive and warm in how they act around others. Meeting someone with a "sunflower  personality" often makes others feel happy, leading to better connections and enjoyable conversations. Let us focus on improving our "art of asking questions" which means  knowing how to ask good, up to the point, and important questions. It  is a lifelong skill, and we should start practicing it from our childhood. Socrates, the ancient Greek philosopher, is considered the "father of questioning." His clever way of asking questions made people think deeply. He used "questions" to help others see their lack of knowledge. Socrates, the Greek Philosopher Some people are born with the talent of asking questions, but anyone can become better at it by practicing and learning. Asking questions well is valuabl...

Why is Nobody Talking to ME? In high school, Nimmi struggled with loneliness feelings; that made even simple interactions challenging. She longed for inclusion in parties and group activities, but her efforts to speak up in class were consistently overlooked by others. It is her personality that often held her back from approaching people, making it difficult to form connections; also on the other hand, the classroom environment seemed to prioritize louder voices, leaving her feeling unheard. Always "REMEMBER" Confused by her peer's neglect, Nimmi started to think about the reasons behind their indifference. She also felt that spending time " ALONE" , provided her an opportunity to do things she enjoys or be more productive like; Finishing her homework Reading and upgrading her knowledge Writing  a diary (expressing feelings and ideas through writing can be therapeutic) Sketching, d raw a masterpiece (get sense of accomplishment and creative satisfaction) Lear...

Akash's switch from science to commerce after finishing class 11 highlights the consequences of hasty decisions influenced by external factors which are not in align with his individual interests and skill sets . The collective influence of those around him has led to a challenging situation for Akash. CULPRITS 1. Akash, the student himself 2. His parents 3.  The Educational Institutions 4. Teachers and Counselors 5. Society and Peer Pressure 1. The student: He must bear the responsibility for all this. He must actively engage in shaping his educational choices as he possess the best insight into his own skills and aspirations. He must be self aware and mature enough to take proper decisions in alignment to his academic path. Akash, the student 1.      2. Parents: Parents play a pivotal role in guiding their children's career choices, offering invaluable support and advice. While conflicts can arise due to differing prospective , some parents may encourage the...

  Mama's Boy is Not Always a BAD Boy As an engaged couple, my fiance  and I, are filled with joy, excitement, and anticipation these past few months. In fact, we want our wedding day look similar to a fairy tale wedding with prince-princess like feeling, a Royalty  touch, plenty of flowers, enchanted wedding themes, whimsical fairy lights, wood elements, and glass bulb decorations. Our imaginary fairy tale weeding theme As you all know, it is important for both the bride and groom to emotionally prepare for their BIG day because there is a feeling of unexplained butterflies in the stomach, nervousness, anxiety, and fear; so many feelings come together to make you feel a host of emotions. As most brides dream to make their wedding day the most memorable day in their lifetime, I too tried to give proper attention to the preparations before the wedding. My future mother-in-law takes over the entire wedding planning and preparations and my opinions were not considered. It was...